> 兩個選擇 > > 你會怎麼做?請你作出你的選擇,這不是什麼機智問答。總之讀下去,我的問題是: 你會作出同樣的選擇嗎? > > 在一個學習遲緩兒童學校的募款餐會上,在場的所有人永遠忘不了其中一個學生的父 親所說的話。 > > 在推祟學校和教職員的付出和貢獻後,這個家長問了一個問題: > > 照理說在無外力干擾下,大自然所創造的一切都是完美的。但我的兒子,西恩,他無 法像別的孩子一樣的學習,他無法像別的孩子一樣的理解事物。 > > 在我孩子身上,大自然的法則何在? > > 所有聽眾都啞口無言。 > > 這個父親繼續說。我相信當像西恩這樣有身體及心智殘缺的孩子來到這個世界,是一 個展現人類真實本性的機會。而這一次體現在別人如何對待這個孩子。 > > 接著,他說了下面這個故事: > > 西恩和我走過一個公園,裡面有些西恩所認識的男孩正在玩棒球。西恩問我:"你想 他們會讓我一起玩嗎?"我知道大部份的孩子不會想要有西恩這樣的孩子在自己的隊 上,但身為一個父親我同時也知道若他們能讓我兒子參加,這會讓他得到他所迫切需要 的歸屬感並建立起自己雖然是殘障仍能被接受的信心。 > > 我走近一個男童(不抱太大希望的)問他西恩可否參加,他看看周圍的隊友然後說" 我們輸了6分而現在正在第8局上,我想他何以參加我們的隊,我們會在第9局設法讓他 上場打擊。” > > 西恩帶著滿臉的喜悅困難的走向他的球隊的休息區,穿上該隊的球衣,我悄悄的滴下 眼淚而心中有滿滿的溫暖。而那些男孩也看出了我對於兒子被接納的喜悅。 > > 在8局下,西恩的隊有追了上來,但仍然還輸3分。 > > 第9局上半場,西恩戴上手套防守右外野,雖然没有球往他的位置飛來,但能在場上 他已經很高興了,我從看台上向他揮手他笑的合不攏嘴。 > > 在9局下,西恩的球隊又得分了。 > > 而此時,二出局滿壘的狀況,下一棒是球隊逆轉的機會,而西恩正是被排在這一棒。 > > 在這個重要關頭,他們會讓西恩上場打擊而放棄贏球的機會嗎? > > 讓人驚奇的是他們真的把球棒交給了西恩,大家都知道西恩根本不可能打到球,因為 他甚至不知道怎麼握球棒更別談碰到球了。 > > 然而當西恩踏上打擊位置,投手已經明白對手為了西恩生命中重要的這一刻放下贏球 的機會,所以他往前走了幾步投了一個很軟的球給西恩讓他至少能碰一下。 > > 第一球投出來,西恩笨拙的揮棒落空。 > > 投手又再往前走了幾步投出一個軟軟的球給西恩。 > > 當球飛過來西恩揮棒打出一個慢速的滾地球,直直的滾向投手。 > > 球賽眼看就要結束。 > > 投手撿起這軟軟的滾地球,他可以輕易的把球傳給一壘手讓西恩出局而結束這場球賽。 > 然而投手把球高高的傳往一壘手的頭頂上方通過,讓他所有的隊友都接不到。 > > 每個站在看台上的人不管是那一隊的都開始喊著:"西恩,跑到一壘!跑到一壘!跑 到一壘!" > > 西恩這輩子從來没有跑這麼遠過,但他還是努力跑到了一壘。 > > 他踩上壘包眼睛張的很大而且很驚喜。 > > 每個人都喊著說:"西恩,跑向二壘,跑向二壘!" > > 剛喘過氣,西恩蹣跚的跑向二壘,很辛苦的往壘包跑。 > > 這時,就在西恩往二壘跑時,右外野手拿到了球,這個全隊最矮的小子第一次有了成 為隊上英雄的機會了。 > > 他大可把球傳向二壘,但這個全隊最矮的小子了解投手的心意,所以他也把球故意高 高傳過三壘手的頭頂過去。 > > 當前面的跑者往本壘跑時,西恩跌跌撞撞的往三壘跑。 > > 大家都大喊著,"西恩,跑,下去,跑下去。" > > 西恩能到達三壘是因為對方的遊擊手跑來幫忙將他帶往三壘的方向,而且喊著,"跑 到三壘,西恩,跑到三壘。" > > 當西恩抵達三壘,雙方的選手和所有的觀眾都站起來,高喊著,"西恩,全壘打!全 壘打!" > > 西恩跑回本壘踩上壘包時,大家為西恩大聲喝采就如他打了一個大滿貫並為全隊贏的 比賽的英雄般。 > > "那一天",那個父親兩頰淚流滿面輕柔的說,"兩隊的男孩子把真愛和人性的光輝 帶進了這個世界。" > > 西恩没能活到另一個夏天,他在那年的冬天過逝,但他從没忘記他曾經是個英雄而且 讓我那們高興,以及他回家時看著媽媽流著淚擁著她的小英雄的那一天! > > 現在;是關於這個故事的一點附註: > > 我們不假思索的用email把數以千計的笑話傳來傳去,但當我們遇到要傳送有關生命 的選擇的信件時,我們反而感到猶豫了。 > > 粗俗、野蠻和經常是有點淫穢的東西每天在網路上無限制的傳播著,反而高尚的事情 的討論卻在學校裡及辦公室裡被壓抑著。 > > 如果你在思考著把這封email轉寄出去,可能你會在你的連絡人上挑選出那些不適合 收到這封信的人,然而把這封email寄給你的人相信我們可以讓世界變的不一樣。 > > 我們每天都有無數的機會可以協助去體現大自然的法則。 > > 很多人與人之間微不足道的互動都是一個選擇的機會。 > > 到底我們是把愛和人性的光輝傳遞下去,或者放棄這些機會使得這世界一點點的更冷默。
> 有一個智者說過;要評價一個社會就要看這個社會如何去對待他們之中最不幸的人。 > > 所以現在你有兩個選擇; > > 1. 刪除 > 2. 轉寄 > > 但願你的每一天都是西恩日 > > > > Subject: Choices > >> > Dear friends, > > As the father of Renee who is born with special needs I strongly feel > that I want to share this story with you all. > Tq Ralph > > Two Choices > > What would you do?....you make the choice. Don't look for a punch > line, there isn't one. Read it anyway. My question is: Would you have > made the same choice? > > > At a fundraising dinner for a school that serves children with > learning disabilities, the father of one of the students delivered a > speech that would never be forgotten by all who attended. After > extolling the school and its > > dedicated staff, he offered a question: > > 'When not interfered with by outside influences, everything nature > does, is done with perfection. > > Yet my son, Shay, cannot learn things as other children do. He cannot > understand things as other children do. > > Where is the natural order of things in my son?' > > > The audience was stilled by the query. > > The father continued. 'I believe that when a child like Shay, who was > mentally and physically disabled comes into the world, an opportunity > to realize true human nature presents itself, and it comes in the way > other people treat that child.' > > Then he told the following story: > > Shay and I had walked past a park where some boys Shay knew were > playing baseball. Shay asked, 'Do you think they'll let me play?' I > knew that most of the boys would not want someone like Shay on their > team, but as a father I also understood that if my son were allowed > to play, it would give him a much-needed sense of belonging and some > confidence to be accepted by others in spite of his handicaps. > > I approached one of the boys on the field and asked (not expecting > much) if Shay could play. The boy looked around for guidance and > said, 'We're losing by six runs and the game is in the eighth inning. > I guess he can be on our team and we'll try to put him in to bat in > the ninth inning.' > > Shay struggled over to the team's bench and, with a broad smile, put > on a team shirt. I watched with a small tear in my eye and warmth in > my heart. The boys saw my joy at my son being accepted. > > In the bottom of the eighth inning, Shay's team scored a few runs but > was still behind by three. > > In the top of the ninth inning, Shay put on a glove and played in the > right field. Even though no hits came his way, he was obviously > ecstatic just to be in the game and on the field, grinning from ear > to ear as I waved to him from the stands. > > In the bottom of the ninth inning, Shay's team scored again. > > Now, with two outs and the bases loaded, the potential winning run > was on base and Shay was scheduled to be next at bat. > > > At this juncture, do they let Shay bat and give away their chance to > win the game? > > Surprisingly, Shay was given the bat. Everyone knew that a hit was > all but impossible because Shay didn't even know how to hold the bat > properly, much less connect with the ball. > > > However, as Shay stepped up to the plate, the pitcher, recognizing that the other team was putting > winning aside for this moment in Shay's life, moved in a few steps to > lob the ball in softly so Shay could at least make contact. > > The first pitch came and Shay swung clumsily and missed. > > The pitcher again took a few steps forward to toss the ball softly > towards Shay. > > As the pitch came in, Shay swung at the ball and hit a slow ground > ball right back to the pitcher. > > > The game would now be over. > > The pitcher picked up the soft grounder and could have easily thrown > the ball to the first baseman. > > Shay would have been out and that would have been the end of the game. > > > Instead, the pitcher threw the ball right over the first baseman's > head, out of reach of all team mates. > > Everyone from the stands and both teams started yelling, 'Shay, run to > first! > > Run to first!' > > Never in his life had Shay ever run that far, but he made it to first > base. > > He scampered down the baseline, wide-eyed and startled. > > > Everyone yelled, 'Run to second, run to second!' > > Catching his breath, Shay awkwardly ran towards second, gleaming and > struggling to make it to the base. > > B y the time Shay rounded towards second base, the right fielder had > the ball . the smallest guy on their team who now had his first > chance to be the hero for his team. > > He could have thrown the ball to the second-baseman for the tag, but > he understood the pitcher's intentions so he, too, intentionally > threw the ball high and far over the third-baseman's head. > > Shay ran toward third base deliriously as the runners ahead of him > circled the bases toward home. > > > > All were screaming, 'Shay, Shay, Shay, all the Way Shay' > > Shay reached third base because the opposing shortstop ran to help > him by turning him in the direction of third base, and shouted, 'Run > to third! > > Shay, run to third!' > > > As Shay rounded third, the boys from both teams, and the spectators, > were on their feet screaming, 'Shay, run home! Run home!' > > Shay ran to home, stepped on the plate, and was cheered as the hero > who hit the grand slam and won the game for his team > > > 'That day', said the father softly with tears now rolling down his > face, 'the boys from both teams helped bring a piece of true love and > humanity into this world'. > > > Shay didn't make it to another summer. He died that winter, having > never forgotten being the hero and making me so happy, and coming > home and seeing his Mother tearfully embrace her little hero of the > day! > > > AND NOW A LITTLE FOOT NOTE TO THIS STORY: > > We all send thousands of jokes through the e-mail without a second > thought, but when it comes to sending messages about life choices, > people hesitate. > > The crude, vulgar, and often obscene pass freely through cyberspace, > but public discussion about decency is too often suppressed in our > schools and workplaces. > > > If you're thinking about forwarding this message, chances are that > you're probably sorting out the people in your address book who > aren't the 'appropriate' ones to receive this type of message Well, > the person who sent you this believes that we all can make a > difference. > > We all have thousands of opportunities every single day to help > realize the 'natural order of things.' > > So many seemingly trivial interactions between two people present us > with a choice: > > Do we pass along a little spark of love and humanity or do we pass up > those opportunities and leave the world a little bit colder in the > process? > > > A wise man once said every society is judged by how it treats it's > least fortunate amongst them. > > > You now have two choices: > > 1. Delete > > 2. Forward > > > May your day, be a Shay Day. > > |
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